From humble beginnings to being known internationally

Brendan Hadley prides himself on his ability to transform people in every area of their life.

Meet Brendan Hadley.

Brendan Hadley is the creator and founder of Evolution Institution, and has worked with countless individuals, helping them to open their minds, hearts and bodies. His powerful methods have assisted them with their own personal development and helped to cultivate greater harmony in their relationships, and improved the quality of their sex lives. 

However, it wasn’t always that way. Not too long ago, Brendan himself was:

  • Suffering with Erectile dysfunction, due to years of sexual abuse as a boy.
  • Suffering from Post-Traumatic Stress
  • Held-back with Severe Dyslexia.
  • 42kg overweight.
  • Overwhelmed with debt.
  • Depressed and suicidal.

Until he did the best thing he ever could have done, began working on himself! He invested a lot of time and money on his education, helping him to change his mindset, lose the weight, get out of debt, heal his emotional wounds, clear his depression, take the winning side of his fight with severe Dyslexia, and have a fantastic sex-life. It could only be done by evolving himself. Now he dedicates his life to helping others.

Over a number of years, Brendan studied and explored, Clinical Sexology, Both Professional and Relationship Counselling, Evolutionary psychology, Jungian psychology, Human Behavioural Psychology,  Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Eastern and Western philosophy, Esoteric Shamanic Alchemy, Tantra, Quodoushka, Conscious Kink/BDSM, Meditation, Advanced Human Biology and Anatomy, along with various massage styles, as well as a number of other different therapeutic and healing modalities.

Brendan is a seeker of knowledge and inner truth, he serves others by coaching countless individuals around Personal Development, Loving Relationships, Business and Sacred Sexuality, as well as facilitating fun educational workshops and life transforming retreats.

Brendan offers highly effective strategies, guidance, tools and wisdom from his own life experience coupled together with his studies to support people to positively transform their relationships, sexual experiences, coaching business and everyday lives.

Brendan works from a heart filled space and brings sensitivity, compassion and deep insight to working with men, women and couples. His passion and life’s work is helping people improve the quality of their lives, by giving them tools to heal, grow and move forward and reach a harmonious sense of fulfilment. He loves creating spaces where men and women can engage more deeply with the essence of who they truly are and help them evolve beyond their current limitations, so they can unlock their hidden potential and be all that they can be.

Brendan Hadley Testimonials

Brendan Hadley has helped me

Brendan Hadley has helped me work through a mix of small and big hurdles. At a superficial level this is stuff about work, money, love and parenting. Deeper down, it’s actually about wounds I’ve carried since being a child and the unhelpful habits I’d adopted to cope with them. With sharp insight and terrific empathy, Brendan helped me link my current patterns to the past, but importantly, he connects that guidance to practical suggestions for being in the present – at work and home. I’ve leaned heavily on Brendan during some dark moments. He was there, and he was wise.

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Stephen Moyer

I feel like I’m walking on air right now.

Just finished a coaching session with Brendan, and I feel like I’m walking on air right now. Like I took a big, cleansing breath and washed away years of blockages and shame around my sexuality. I remember what it is like to feel alive and sensual and I can’t wait to flirt with the world…

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Margaret Mafs

Brendan has a great touch

Brendan has a great touch, is very respectful, and pays a lot of attention to what you really need. Altogether an awesome experience thank you.

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Victoria Smith

Once I was an extremely stressed IT Project Manager, now I’m a happy and successful copy editor and small business owner!

Brendan has taken me from a full-on breakdown (I was basically an agoraphobic, unable to leave the house and convinced I was dying) to the point where I have a new career and a normal life again.
Without Brendan’s advice and encouragement I would still be blaming myself for not being a success, instead of having been able to find success in a new place. Thank you, Brendan, for giving me my life back.

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Gillian Swift

Thank you Brendan for reminding us how we can always love each other no matter what obstacles are in our way and that we make a great team.

I’m really appreciative of all the time and effort Brendan has dedicated to myself and my lovely wife, he has definitely given us the strength to understand a lot more about ourselves as well as others. It must feel good to have the ability to change people’s mindsets to a state of well-being and happiness – I know it would for me.

Thank you Brendan for reminding us how we can always love each other no matter what obstacles are in our way and that we make a great team. (Thanks to my darling wife).

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Steven Tate

My previous premature ejaculation problem has miraculously disappeared!!

I recently got involved with an amazing girl and the sexual connection has been amazing. Making love was a completely different experience!! We connected and my previous premature ejaculation problem has miraculously disappeared!! Thanks so much.


Tim M

This guy will certainly set you up for success

Things that set Brendan apart from other coaches:
1) Very personal in his coaching. He watches you closely, and gives you great feedback, and pumps you up. Having him as a coach is powerful, and inspirational!
2) Very effective in training: Brendan trained us in a group coaching session on story-telling. Each of us got to tell our drafts, then he helped edit it, and then each of us got to deliver it again. I got two stories out of the session, and more importantly, I deeply understand the principles of storytelling now. At the end of the three-day intensive, he gave a lecture on fashion/grooming and NLP, two areas in which he knows a lot. It’s amazing how this guy can have such a depth and breadth in psychology without actually being a psychologist, and also knows so much about fashion.

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Robert Evans

I deeply thank you Brendan, if only there were more people in the world like you.

I was really sheltered and naive growing up as a Jehovah’s Witness

When I lost my faith and challenged the church, they denounced me and spread gossip about me, pressuring me to stay silent when I spoke out. And my family even excommunicated me for no good reason.

Although I was grateful for being free of all the controlling influences and brainwashing of the church, I was heavily dealing with separation anxiety and kind of felt like I had jumped out of the frying pan and into the fire! Nothing made sense anymore and the dating world was really scary. I was taken advantage of a few times, I almost totally gave up on love and humanity as a whole, but Brendan made me feel that I wasn’t alone, and he really helped me turn everything around.

You taught me so many things and really empowered me to make more positive changes in my life, now I’m in a healthy relationship and moving forward in a positive direction.

From the bottom of my heart, I deeply thank you Brendan, if only there were more people in the world like you.

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Esther Stevenson

I found their workshop extremely fun!

I found their workshop extremely fun, sensitive and at the same time powerfully transformative. It had the right mixture of professionalism and compassion that touches the heart and reaches the mind with crisp clarity. I honor you Brendan for having been true to your goal to become a sexual healer; you are one of the best!

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Sandra Bortone

Coach Brendan Hadley has delivered very helpful information and training.

Coach Brendan Hadley has delivered very helpful information and training, my friend of 7 years has now become my girlfriend so we have a very deep trust and she has explored the BDSM lifestyle way more than I have ever tried. Brendan’s in-depth training has made me feel very confident about exploring this new lifestyle with her. I also emailed his 17-page checklist for her to fill out, and she was so excited to receive it. She’s also very happy with how much I’m wanting to grow and explore with her, she’s excited for me to take the Dominant role with our relationship so this is so exciting to us both. Thanks again Brendan for all the helpful information you shared and the time you’ve spent coaching me, I’m looking forward to your digital courses being released.

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Benjamin Presley

My husband changed completely – thank you so much!

I can’t believe that the workshop lasted only one day; my husband changed completely; his attitude, his touch and even the way he looks at me are different – thank you so much!

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Sophie Lucena

Brendan is amazing at what he does.

Brendan is amazing at what he does. Thanks to the work we did with him, Tanya and I have a sex life again, and it is way better than it was before we had our little girl! We’re having so much more fun together and I’m feeling more in love than I ever thought possible. We can’t thank Brendan enough for helping us to re-light our fire!

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John Bailey

My wife has become an orgasm machine!

Since we worked with Brendan, my wife is an orgasm machine. I can barely keep up with her!

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Jammal Brown

I couldn’t recommend Evolution Institution anymore wholeheartedly to others if I tried!

Who knew there was so much that one could learn – and enjoy learning – about how to relate and create intimacy with your partner. There seem to be so few places in life to ask questions about this topic – we don’t do that well in our society – to find out more information, to find out what other people have already learned. But the workshop was the perfect environment. The content was engaging and helpful, we practiced together and with Brendan and his assistant volunteers, we were able to bring home some great ways of relating that has opened up an already great relationship into something even better. Brendan was masterful in how he taught and coached and in sharing the wisdom he’s learned over the years of helping others. I couldn’t recommend Evolution Institution workshops anymore wholeheartedly to others if I tried!

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Tracey Ashman

Was absolutely worth doing!

My partner and I both are aware of how different we are and most of the time are able to appreciate these differences. We discuss things more now than we ever did before relationship coaching with Brendan. I don’t hold back any feelings that I might have but I am more careful of how I tell him about my feelings. I realise that he doesn’t always understand the way I feel and I am comfortable with that now.

I feel great and It means that I forgot about the past as much as possible and started looking forward to spending my present and future with him.

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Mayumi Toyoura

40 minutes of non-stop fucking!

The “control regimen” that we have worked on was so successful that she came twice before I even did. It was a solid 40 minutes of non-stop fucking. She had trouble falling asleep afterwards because her body was having pleasure after-shocks for an hour after we finished. She couldn’t stop talking about how great it was.

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Tony Andrews

I am engaged and having better sex than I had in my 20’s!

Until I met Brendan, I thought I would never experience love again. Years and years of sexless dull relationships left me hopeless. I was no longer 21. My body did not move the way it used to. I didn’t want to do sessions over Skype. I wanted to see someone in person. Brendan offered intensive work so I came for a week. The work was hard and the breakthroughs were incredible. By the end of the week, I knew I could find a relationship again AND I knew what kind of relationship I wanted. Within two weeks of returning home, I had my first date. Three years later, I am engaged and having better sex than I had in my 20’s!

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Amelia Porzio

My relationship with my wife just keeps getting better!

Before I came to see Brendan, I was very unhappy with my relationship with my wife of over 30 years. I was unhappy with her sexual responsiveness and felt constantly criticized by her. I would collapse with the tone of her voice or even an expression could send me into a tailspin. My wife was no happier and had suggested separation.

All our 30 plus years of married life I tried to be the “good husband” by being the “nice guy.” I tried so very hard to please her thinking that my tactic of trying to make everything ok would work. Needless to say, I failed most of the time. When she was unhappy or angry with me I would shut down, pout or disappear for a few days until she came and tried to patch things up with some make-up sex.

The results have been nothing short of remarkable. I have learned that what my wife needed in order to be a woman was for me to be a man. Once I started changing how I was with my wife, she challenged me to my core. I had no idea of how deeply I could be cut and still stand there and stay engaged with her while she pushed me to find out if I was really going to be a man she could count on and trust. She needed to know that she could be all sides of herself, the good, bad and ugly to see if I really cared about her and not just “the goodies.”

I stayed with her for three weeks of the most intense emotional roller coaster I have ever been on. The ugly turned awesome and back again. After three weeks of receiving her on all levels, from all parts of herself, she collapsed in my arms, totally in love with me. Since then we have been like teenagers in love. I didn’t realize how many times I could still have sex in a single day.

I regret all the years that I could have been a man for her and given her the pleasure of being a woman. But, no matter. What is important are the wonderful changes that I have experience in my work with Brendan – I feel strong and centered in myself and my relationship with my wife just keeps getting better.

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Derek Buchanan

Brendan is extremely talented coach!

Brendan is an extremely talented, skilled, and intuitive coach, he has a natural ability for identifying issues, and above all he is so easy and comfortable to work with, using his gentle but focused approach. He is encouraging and supportive and achieves outstanding results. His coaching sessions, often leave me feeling energised and eager to get meeting people and simply be myself!

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Christina Wu

I didn’t expect was to enjoy it so much.

When I started working with Brendan I had one simple objective: to improve my dating skills. His warm and friendly style of coaching immediately appealed to me, and whilst I didn’t have super high expectations at the beginning, I was confident that Brendan’s approach would get the best out of me. The success I have enjoyed over the last few months has been remarkable; it’s far exceeded my expectations. Through well-targeted exercises focused on my areas of weakness I’ve acquired skills and attributes that not so long ago didn’t seem possible, and as a result, my self-belief and confidence has never been higher. The benefits have extended well beyond dating and have opened up new opportunities at work as well. What I didn’t expect was to enjoy it so much, trying out new ideas and challenges with support and encouragement from Brendan made the sessions and time in between feel like fun rather than hard work!

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Ben Dawson

I received practices that have daily anchored me in the energy of joyfulness.

It’s difficult to find words to describe my experience in this retreat. The experience brought me a gentle and joyful inner pleasure. It can seem very funny, but the word that came to me was ‘injaculation’.

In this retreat I was able to fit together various pieces of a puzzle of concepts and spiritual teachings that until now were somewhat disconnected. It was also a strengthening of the fundamental aspects of BDSM, a consolidation of my understanding of the various lines of sacred sexuality and how they relate to other spiritual traditions.

As a gift from this retreat I received practices that have daily anchored me in the energy of the heart’s joyfulness. After the retreat and through the daily practices that we were given, I notice a definite transformation in my sex life and massage work. I find myself much more fluid and connected with my intuition.

I was really struck by Brendan’s ability to transmit such profound teachings and practices in such a simple and light way.

I thank him very much for showing such patience and full availability during the whole time that we were together.

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Bryony Benazzo

Outstanding Coaching

I have met with Brendan a few times now and each time he has given me good advice and set me on a better course. It can be hard to see what you are doing wrong in the dating world and friends either give you no advice or bad/unhelpful advice. Brendan gives advice based on the person you are, age/ personality/ lifestyle you wouldn’t get that from just reading a book. I am now dating someone I really like and going on a holiday soon! I can recommend Brendan. It is very helpful to have a male coach that knows how to decode the complex differences of how men and women think, and give you a logical perspective that you wouldn’t normally think of as a man.

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Andrew Tuhirangi

Top coach

Brendan brings patience and compassion to the discussion of the most intimate things. He is encouraging in the practice of a fulfilling sex life and an empowering force for a personal journey of self-discovery and intimate connection. With careful thought and careful observation Brendan creates a space of empowerment.

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Samuel Fischer

Fantastic coaching services

Brendan is a fantastic coach. He’s easy to talk with, an excellent listener, empathetic and organized. He assigned me homework (that was simple, challenging, and do-able) and provided space to check-in, which helped me achieve my goals. Investing in his assistance helped me work on communication, consent, stress, play, pleasure, and so much more. It’s been very rewarding for me as an individual as well as my 16-year partnership. Thank you, Brendan!

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Isabella Weber

If you’re standing on the precipice of getting coaching, my advice to you is take the plunge, your future self will thank you for it!

I appreciate the bodywork and coaching I got from Brendan, he is amazing at what he does and always seems to know what I need next. I really don’t know how he pulls everything together but I don’t need to. I just know Brendan has changed me and that he is an amazing human being. No matter where my journey takes me next, I will never forget the positive impact he has had on my life.

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Larissa Grace

Wonderful experience!

I booked a body work session with Brendan. It was a wonderful experience I’ve never had before. Very special and exotic. I love massage and I give massage to people also. Brendan has combined different types of massage and created his unique one which brings his clients a unique experience. He is intelligent and knowledgeable and enthusiastic, he knows exactly what you want and professionally work on your needs. Everything he chose, the oil, the music and the add-ons are fabulous, I’ve never felt so orgasmic. I strongly recommend Brendan, he won’t let you down.

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Haiyan Zhang

My experience the other day left me tingling with excitement.

After having spent months and years in talk therapy, both individual and group (which I gave up on years ago), I was a little skeptical that my work with Brendan would bear much fruit, especially in the short run. But now, I begin to appreciate the powerful forces he has taught me how to tap into, and what a direct path they can open into healing. My experience the other day left me tingling with excitement, and feeling an unfamiliar sense of hope and optimism. I had thought that I had pretty much banished the feeling of shame that was instilled in me growing up, but now I see that I had merely bandaged it up with a tight dressing, along with a bunch of good things that shame had attached itself to. Pretty amazing. And I feel that I am just getting started with this process, and with what he can help me discover.

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Christina Tuhana

My Sex life and Sensual life will never be the same.

Before my first session with Brendan, I was an average lover with not much-staying power. He has taught me how to have staaaaayyying power throughout my love-making experience. Secondly, I have learned the art of making love to my lover… Slowly, methodically, with the deepest of breath… we are both appreciative. Where were you 10 years ago. My Sex life and Sensual life will never be the same.

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Ben Hanson

My partner and I have a sex life again!

As a coach Brendan is direct and makes it easy to talk about the hard bits. Thanks to our work with him, my husband and I have a sex life again – and it is hotter than it ever was before the baby! We have more fun together and feel closer than we ever have before. We can’t thank Brendan enough for helping us to re-light our fire!

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Tanya Bailey

With Brendan’s guidance I feel more confident and am now successfully moving forward with my ideal man.

Despite being in a field that often gives counseling to others on maintaining their relationships, I actually had no idea about how to manage my own.

This does sound like the plot to a terrible romantic comedy but it’s actually been the case. I was nervous about putting myself out there due to my conservative values but Brendan was remarkably insightful and helped me understand myself as an individual who would navigate a relationship with another individual for a meaningful and lasting connection.

His incredible coaching taught me about standards I should keep and compromises I should make in order to find and sustain a relationship that makes me feel truly wonderful.

I have felt more confident about navigating this process with his guidance and am now successfully moving forward with my ideal man.

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Donna Lawrence

I just love the way he brings his wisdom; very authentic and with lots of humour.

Brendan is such a powerful man. With his presence and divine masculine energy he lights up the room. He definitely knows how to tap into the energy of the people attending his workshops. And I just love the way he brings his wisdom; very authentic and with lots of humour. The questions Brendan asked me during our coaching sessions were spot on. If you’re looking for someone who can help you find balance within the healthy masculine and feminine, then Brendan is definitely the right person to connect with.

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Kimberly Clark

I highly recommend Evolution Institution!

I was thrilled to win a sexological bodywork treatment session from Evolution Institution right after finishing the hardest research report in my Psych Science degree. Brendan was very understanding of the stress I had been under and gave a thorough, balanced, attentive, and very enjoyable treatment session which lifted my spirits ready to face a new study period. I highly recommend Evolution Institution if you need to de-stress or simply treat yourself. Brendan is professional, personable and very competent. Thanks again for the wonderful session!

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Daynia Petersen

I felt my whole body electrified, nurtured by the Divine Energy that creates and maintains life.

I don’t know how to explain love, but I am able to recognise it. My experience with sensual bodywork enveloped me profoundly, upon feeling the love of Brendan’s touch and the connection with Brendan’s sensitivity.

I felt the life-force fibrillating every cell in my body, a profound relaxation of the mind, in the surrender of simply feeling…
I felt a wonderful divine presence. I breathed intensely, consciously, and it’s impossible to describe in words the sensations.

The opening I felt helped me to release through tears, through laughter, in deep compassion 🙂 It was as if infinity was bathing my whole being…
I am truly grateful, as we’re all in such need of this love, this relaxation, that came to me through the intelligence of the life-force, in the flood of hormonal activation, in the contraction and release of the muscles, through a pleasure that is intrinsic to my being.
I felt my whole body electrified, nurtured by the Divine Energy that creates and maintains life.
I feel gifted by cosmic intelligence in physical form.
Pure poetry!

Thank you Brendan

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Hyeon Gwan

On my first coaching call I was amazed by how quickly he identified subtle communication errors of which I was not aware.

I have been able to attract dates and relationships but not the ideal person so I decided to retain the expertise of Brendan to see how I can improve myself in this world of dating and relationships.

On my first coaching call, I was amazed by how quickly he identified subtle communication errors of which I was not aware.

I was intrigued and excited to learn so much out of the first coaching call. It was an eye-opening experience!

I am very excited about this journey I am taking to learn, evolve and attract the soulmate I am ready to meet!

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Reyansh Patel

I would recommend that people look at Evolution Institution as a strong option.

Before I got dating coaching through Evolution Institution, my response rate from the messages I was sending out online were dismal… the messages I was attempting to send were being misconstrued because I wasn’t educated on how to form a proper profile to get the right message across for women to take notice. Brendan provided me with that education and my response rate increased dramatically.

My main concern that might have prevented me from getting coaching with Evolution Institution’ was that I wasn’t sure Brendan could provide me with the localized support that I was looking for, specific to the city I lived in. I wasn’t interested in meeting women outside of my local geographic area. However, the support I received with respect to my profile was not a localized restriction and I could digitally use his profile help across all the online platforms.

I like that Brendan took the time to connect on the phone. That personal support was very encouraging and his advice was top-notch.

Also, confidence – Having Brendan on my side reviewing my profile and hand-holding me through the process helped build my confidence with what I had to offer.

I would recommend that people look at Evolution Institution as a strong option. I thought I knew how to write a profile and message women to get responses – but I was wasting my time. You don’t know what you don’t know and Brendan provided me with that essential knowledge.

Within 6 months of using his coaching services, I met a match online and we have a very strong mental, spiritual and physical connection. I never imagined I would meet someone like her. She credits my profile as to why she responded to me.

Things have been going great. We have decided to make our relationship exclusive and I have hidden my profiles online to focus on her, without any distractions.

Thanks for your support.

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Trent Johnson

I put what I learned at the first workshop to use and got great results

I put what I learned at the first workshop to use and got great results… my girlfriend LOVED it! I can’t wait to see what else I learn from the next one.

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Jess Comber

This is the first fun workshop that I’ve attended where I actually feel like I’ve gained a huge amount of info

The workshop was very thorough and so much fun, we covered a huge amount. The facilitator was also very passionate about his subject. This is the first workshop that I’ve attended where I actually feel like I’ve gained a huge amount of info.
The workbook was great, and I found it very valuable, can’t wait to go to more of their workshops!

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Saanvi Acharya

Really saved our marriage!

My wife and I started seeing Brendan about 8 months ago, and I can’t thank Brendan enough for helping Sabrina overcome her post-natal depression and giving me my wife back. I have known her for 10 years and have never seen her as happy as this. Bless you Brendan! Thank you for everything you’ve done for us.

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Jason Morgan

Couldn’t be happier

I have had bodywork sessions by Brendan, multiple times! His technique is so soothing and relaxing, yet still firm and therapeutic. I’ve experienced a variety of massage and bodywork techniques in my time and Brendan’s is truly unique and superior in so many ways. His treatment table is fantastic for pregnant bellies as well, the relief I felt in my lower back felt truly like a gift from heaven. He has a gentle calming nature and his energy is soooo good for a pregnant mummy to be.
After my coaching sessions with Brendan, my relationship is so much better than it ever was before and we couldn’t be happier. I highly recommend Brendan for any relationship or sexual issues, before and after your baby. Enjoy!

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Yuka Ishihara

Fast track yourself to the results you want

Brendan has a natural charisma and a deep understanding of structure which gives him lethal results in his field. Get coached by this guy for a short time and you’ll be picking up in no time.

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Richard Davies

The ‘now’ has never been so beautiful.

Thank you Brendan for your dedication in allowing me to experience myself in a way that bordered on ‘spiritual’. I cannot praise enough your ability to connect and provide an environment of trust.

The ‘now’ has never been so beautiful.

Thank you for helping me find it. Love, and lots of it. 💋

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Katie Randall

The Evolution Institution couple’s workshop helped my partner and I deepen our sexual connection to each other.

I attended an Evolution Institution couple’s workshop to improve my coaching skills and got to invite my partner to take it with me. It was such an amazing experience to be there with my partner learning professional skills that immediately transformed my personal relationship. Having Brendan demo a couple’s session with us helped us understand and reverse our negative relationship vortex. We learned to have empathy for each other when it arose in our relationship so that we could resolve it quickly and get back to the fun stuff! As always with somatic teachings, it also helped us deepen our sexual connection to each other.

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Sheena González

I wouldn’t recommend!

I’m a 23 year old trans man and I reached out to Brendan for sex coaching because I don’t have a lot of irl experience. Right away he started trying to pressure me to have an over the phone consultation with him. I was like “What?! We can just do it by email, or by texting. Afterward he made the excuse that he’s dyslexic. I can really tell. For a dyslexic he likes to write essays it seems.

We continued to have some back and forward exchange and eventually he tried to joke and say.
“Sometimes in life you’ve just got to be a man and pick up the god damn phone! lol ;P”
Really bad joke. It’s not about “being a man and picking up the phone”, yikes!

Next, he asked me: “Where is the anxiety coming from when it comes to talking to someone over the phone? I’m not trying to be insensitive or anything I just really don’t get it.”

He clearly thinks he’s some high and mighty wise man, that can cure people’s mental illnesses by trying to rationalise them and saying that they don’t exist.

I bet he would have also told me to just “be happy” because I’m depressed. People should stop trying to “convince” me that I should speak to them on the phone, bc it ain’t happening!



Working with Brendan has been a life-changing experience for me.

Working with Brendan has been a life-changing experience for me. His coaching sessions consistently provide fresh opportunities to discern the true nature of my life situation, to become clearly aware of where I am, where I really want to go and most importantly, what I need to do to get there. Once the way is clear, Brendan’s coaching provides a gentle but effective accountability mechanism to keep me on the path that I have chosen. In just a few months, I’ve seen my stress level drop and my overall personal and professional life satisfaction grow by leaps and bounds.

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Timothy Lewis

I wanted to give you the absolutely wonderful news that WE ARE MARRIED and I COULDN’T BE HAPPIER!!!

This relationship is everything I possibly could have imagined and more… That feeling of love intertwined with contentment has been taken to an even higher level!

I can depend upon him… This man wants to take care of me thru all life’s ups & downs. I don’t have to be anybody but myself. If I come home from a stressful day at work or if I feel exhausted with things going on in life, he has a ready joke to lighten the mood or a warm hug to help me relax. He is sensitive to what I am going thru. He wants to listen or offer advice if it will ease a situation or dilemma. He just wants to be where I’m at… Brendan, apart from you, until him the only other person who genuinely cared about how my day went was my mum!

We work together… Cook together, clean together and relax together. We shop together and laugh together and it feels totally natural… We just flow together.

He is kind, caring, positive and optimistic. He is strong yet easygoing. He makes me want to give my all and be my best… Not just for him, but in life. And most importantly, HE LOVES ME!!! This comfortable heartfelt truly deep love, that people say you will know when you experience it… Is real. My family and friends say they have never seen me this happy & relaxed.

Brendan, when I embarked on this journey with you, and you gave me guidance and advice to make me strong and confident to seek the love of my life, I could not have fathomed that someone this perfect for me even existed. You still pop into my head at times, “What would Brendan say to do?”

Thank you Brendan, for being an amazing coach, and a pivotal & positive force to help me create the perfect relationship… My heartfelt and eternal gratitude to you, My Friend, for priming me and getting me ready to live the life I’ve been waiting for!!!

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Estelle Tweaks

This is really starting to pay off.

I have to say our last session was really great… I had tried to change the way I think/see the world for a long time… but never succeeded, I think I can do it now because after talking with Brendan, I understand there is a support system created for each belief… I had never considered this before.
Brendan helped me to start truly analysing my beliefs, I really think it’s working, slowly, but it is… I can feel it… I still have a VERY LONG WAY to go… but it’s a start, a great start.

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Lisa Michaels

I’ve tapped into a greater dimension of self and a greater depth of heart and it’s having a ripple effect on all areas of my life!

I’ve had the pleasure of working with Brendan during one of the hugest growth phases of my life. His energy is warm and welcoming, and his style is edgy and bold. Brendan helped me step into my own personal power as a woman and wear the radiance and boldness of my sexuality with confidence. Through my sessions with Brendan I’ve tapped into a greater dimension of self and a greater depth of heart and it’s having a ripple effect on all areas of my life! I have so much gratitude for this amazing man. Thank you for profoundly impacting my life, Brendan.

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Stephanie Darcy

Really knows how to get the best out of his clients.

Brendan has a warm and empathetic style of coaching and really knows how to get the best out of his clients by being solution-focused.

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Gorge Hughes

I can’t emphasize enough what a thrill it was.

I can’t emphasize enough what a thrill it was to have prolonged intercourse AND to have my girlfriend orgasm as a result of our coupling. When we engaged I lasted as long as I ever have with my girlfriend and could have even lasted longer. I could never have accomplished this without your lessons, so thank you Brendan.

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Kareem Bashar

One of the best and most fun workshops I have been to – and I have been to a lot!

One of the best and most fun workshops I have been to – and I have been to a lot! Brendan is extremely knowledgeable about sexology and human behaviour and the workshop gave me a wealth of actionable ideas to take into the bedroom.

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Sinead Clare

I would definitely recommend anyone not getting the results they want in their personal life work with Evolution Institution.

Before turning to Evolution Institution and making the decision to invest in dating coaching with Brendan, my dating life was non-existent. I never seemed to meet anyone on my own all too much.

The support Brendan is giving me, including motivating me to do things I wouldn’t normally do, is what I like most about working with Evolution Institution.

In addition to getting to meet new people, another benefit I’m getting is guidance from Brendan.

I would definitely recommend anyone not getting the results they want in their personal life work with Evolution Institution – it’s always good to hear from Brendan and get good advice – he’s given me great advice and has corrected me with things (with women) I didn’t even know I was doing.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all your help and support.

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Christopher Hewitson

Money well spent!

I don’t think I’ve ever felt so free to be open and honest about myself as I am when I work with and talk to Brendan! Our sessions have enabled me to transform my life and my relationships in a way that I did not think was possible. I gain much valuable insight and self-awareness through our sessions and would recommend him without hesitation to both couples and individuals who want to get more out of their lives and relationships!

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Sandra Reid

Wow, talk about getting a whole new lease on life!

I was expecting a session with Brendan where he would advise me on directions to take to make my life happy. He instead taught me how to choose my own directions and grow as a person for unlimited happiness. I discovered the need to set goals, achieve them and celebrate.
Since taking coaching sessions, I have gone back to music playing, studying, meeting new people, contacting old friends. It has also helped me strengthen relationships with my family.
I have gained a lot more than I expected from life coaching. This is just the start of the new me.

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Greg Wilson

Really helped us to light a bonfire in our bedroom!

We have been together for 10 years and were in a routine. We still enjoyed sex, but it wasn’t mind-blowing like at the beginning of our relationship. Close friends recommended one of Brendan’s kink workshops and the field trip to a fetish club. Best recommendation ever! The role-play workshop with field trip was a blast! We now have a ‘dressing up box’ hidden in the wardrobe with all the bits needed to transform into pirates, distressed damsels, police and prisoner, French maid and master of the house. The field trip introduced us to a whole new world. We can’t wait for the next event and field trip. Brendan has helped us to light a bonfire in our bedroom. We cannot thank him enough!

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Steven Stamkos

It is hard to believe

It is hard to believe how my life was before I came to see Brendan. I feel like I’m totally in control over my life now.
I went on a serious Keto diet and lost 13kgs. I am currently eating healthy and haven’t had alcohol for a month. Sleeping well and feeling energised every day.
Choosing to be happy has become easier for me after my coaching sessions with Brendan; he helped me gain a positive perspective on life in general. And I’m grateful for him showing me other ways of healing myself. I know now to surround myself with the right people.
I have been chosen as a “Culture Champion” at work. My job is to run workshops using mindfulness techniques to bring positive energy in being aligned with the company values. I love it as it enables me to help someone be happy. I’m the Brendan in my company.
My crew members are listening to me now and my ship is back on course.
Thank you for everything and for keeping in touch.

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Hanna Grace

I have learned a lot from you!

Thank you so much Brendan for all your help and patience with me throughout this process. I have learned a lot from you!
I went on the date with that guy we discussed. I did what we talked about- it was fun! I walked out of there happy.

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Jade Prem

I literally think Brendan saved my life, and showed me the possibility of a new one.

Brendan is an incredibly insightful and intelligent counsellor, sexologist and coach who has the ability to see beyond the therapeutic process to the individual and their unique situation. I felt very lucky to have found him, and he came highly recommended by multiple friends in the medical community. He deeply considers each circumstance and the best way forward. He has given me both practical and emotional advice that has been life-changing. He knows when to call a spade a spade, which is hugely refreshing when other therapists will often disappear behind the theory or the process. He is also an inspiring man who obviously has a rich life experience to bring to the job. He often starts a session, with “I’ve been thinking,” which gives you an insight into his level of dedication to the job. I strongly recommend Brendan to anyone I know who is experiencing issues. I was in a very difficult abusive marriage with complex issues, we had seen multiple marriage counsellors, and he was the end of the road for me. I literally think he saved my life, and showed me the possibility of a new one.

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Samantha Green

One of the best decisions was to reach out to Brendan for help.

Coming out as nonbinary has been and will always be a journey without a clear beginning and end.

Some days I can live in the expansiveness of myself, and some days I feel restrained by others’ expectations and assumptions. Some days I feel valid as a “twilight person,” existing between and outside of binaries, and some days explaining and defining who I am is too tiring and I wish for simplicity. I used to have total emotional meltdowns about that when would happen, and then I would find myself stuck wallowing in a deep pit of despair for long periods of time, (which admittedly was pretty maladaptive on my part) but Brendan has really helped me self-regulate my emotions.

He helped me become more confident, more aware, and more reflective of my thoughts.

He helped me feel more forgiving towards others, and helped me see all the positives within myself and run with them.

Brendan’s life coaching skills were inspiring, exuberant, and spectacular.

I’m now focusing on me, and so much of this stems from his work with me. Thank you, Brendan!

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Ze’evi Berman

Thank You Brendan and Evolution Institution!

In a very thorough and scrutinizing effort to find the optimal resource to help me “get back out there” after my divorce, I sought a dating coach who could get the job done.

In Brendan I have found everything I hold my standards to and more: Thorough attention to detail; Guidance and coaching of a wingman who is also the support beneath my wings; An upbeat and ever-positive attitude to keep me confident and proactive on this path; A true well-wisher, not afraid to tell me what I need to hear if it will make me a better catch; A gentle nudge to keep my momentum going on this sometimes unpredictable road; And somebody who is not just invested in me but self-motivated, honest and dedicated enough to be vested in making my story a success.

Brendan and I are still traveling my road together, stopping at important intersections, discussing directions for optimal future potential, really working as a team where he is a minute-to-minute constant in my high-priority partner search.

I couldn’t imagine this journey without Brendan and Evolution Institution! I know one day soon I’ll look back at this juncture in my life and thank my lucky stars for this life-changing junction called Brendan!!!

Thank You Brendan and Evolution Institution!

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Richard Koch

Highly recommend coaching with Brendan!

I’m so grateful to have met Brendan! He is highly insightful, easy to talk to, and open-minded. Every relationship (as well as single folks) can benefit from a little unbiased, professional guidance. The best part is you feel like you’re just chatting with a very wise friend. Highly recommend coaching with Brendan!

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Song Chang

You won’t regret getting coached by Brendan

The first time I tried dating online, I was forced into it – I wasn’t ready. The second time I tried, was with the help of Brendan. After our first conversation, I realized there was quite a long list of reasons why I was in my own way for finding a healthy, long-term relationship. Needless to say I had some work to do and Brendan was there to help me get past the insecurities I had about dating online. He helped me peel back layers with in-depth conversations and his thoughtful and patient energy made it easy for me to be relaxed and deeply honest with myself. Brendan speaks from experience. His confidence and willingness to show vulnerability is where I felt most of his power. He listened to me and built tailored activities like visioning, self-portraits and a huge charge for self-love which lead me to stepping deeper into my femininity and ultimately my power. THANK YOU BRENDAN!

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Alice Müller

Better than I expected!

Things are going well for me now. I have spent a lot more time on social activities and balance… And I’m feeling more positive in myself.”
“I’m very thankful for Brendan being my Life Coach and for what he has given me… it has made an impact on my life and I am still trying to improve myself day by day. I came to the stage that I had achieved what I was looking for and am very satisfied with this. I can’t recommend getting coached by Brendan enough.

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Rob Reznor


I found my coaching sessions with Brendan really life-changing. He helped me approach relationships in a different, more constructive way and my confidence levels in all areas of my life have really increased. Not only have I now found a happy relationship, but by improving my communication Skills I’ve also been able to make positive changes at work and progress my career.

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Helen McNamee

Finally! Success!

I believe I have successfully graduated. My wife and I went away over the weekend and I rocked her world. Finally! Success! She said she had waves of orgasm during intercourse that she had never experienced. She noted how engaged and present I was during our lovemaking. She can hardly wait to do it again. Thank you Brendan so much for all your help!

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Charles Lin

I will tell my friends who are lacking positivity to go and attend these workshops run by Brendan as soon as possible.

Brendan’s workshop through Evolution Institution triggered emotional issues which I realised I should address because it affects me. I loved the communication styles and being positive, the focus on feeding the right wolf. I liked the examples. I liked the theory and the research, and especially all the fun learning activities. I will tell my friends who are lacking positivity to go and attend these workshops run by Evolution Institution as soon as possible.

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Anisah Ayad

I became a better me!

I have worked with Brendan for over 2 years now; he is my go-to guy for any personal problems and family issues! Brendan has a steady approach to coaching and has helped me make the changes I needed to become a better me. I don’t know where I would be without his insight and skill and his no-nonsense approach. I’m sure I’ll be working with Brendan for many years to come.

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Kathy Gillan

I would recommend Evolution Institution to anyone

Getting life coaching through Evolution Institution was very helpful to me as I knew I wanted a new career but didn’t know how to go about it… I would recommend Evolution Institution to anyone who is tired of their dull and unfulfilling job and is looking for a way to find a career that is exciting and meaningful to them.

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Ting Bai

I felt a new wave of freedom and new possibilities permeate my being – something that I hadn’t felt in a long time.

Brendan’s approach is incredibly direct. I felt as if his questions were draining poison from my psyche. The next day I felt a new wave of freedom and new possibilities permeate my being – something that I hadn’t felt in a long time. Without Brendan’s help, it would maybe have been impossible to get to this point because you can’t discover a ‘blind spot’ by yourself, you need a mirror. Brendan is the perfect ‘ego-surgeon’ – gentle, precise and incisive.

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Josh Hunt

I definitely recommend!

I have read many self-help books over the years but the progress I’ve made from coaching through Evolution Institution has been the best by far. I recently experienced life coaching with Brendan, it was truly powerful and helped me gain a greater understanding about myself and my needs. Brendan has always made me feel very comfortable and relaxed. He always checks in with me and how I am doing throughout the process, he’s very friendly and very good at his job! I would definitely see him again and recommend Evolution Institution and Brendan to others or even as a gift!

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Carly Henderson

I finally found the answers I’ve been looking for.

In the sessions with Brendan I felt that I was taken on a voyage to the outer reaches of the universe and to the ultimate meaning of things where all my questions had an answer.
Brendan has a great capacity to transmit profound concepts in a simple and accessible language.

I felt when speaking with him that all the universe opened up to me and made sense and left feeling inspired with a smile on my face and warmth in my heart.

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Ben Robbins

I wish I would have done this before.

Thanks for getting me going and the ongoing support… Makes you feel good…. I wish I would have done this before.

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Christopher Tucker

My girlfriend now introduces me as the guy who helped her find her G-Spot.

Brendan has taught me so much in such a short amount of time, it’s insane! And with his help I’ve definitely leveled up my sex game.

My girlfriend now introduces me as the guy who helped her find her G-Spot, so thanks mate.

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Scott Hansen

My experience with Brendan’s coaching has made a profound difference in my life.

My experience with Brendan’s coaching has made a profound difference in my life. I have allowed myself to explore and to awaken parts of my erotic self that had been repressed or blocked for most of my life. I have been able to really acknowledge and celebrate my sexuality and to face up to my inhibitions and feelings of guilt about my sexual desires and arousals. For the first time I felt my sexuality was fully accepted, even the parts that I had thought of as ‘kinky’ and ‘nasty’. My opening has had very positive implications for my sex life. I have gained skills in connecting with women and have much greater control over my ejaculation and sexual responsiveness.

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Toby Ferrari

I feel excited to finally be finding great guys with potential with all his help!!!

My main concern with getting support from Evolution Institution was the financial investment.

What I like most about working with Brendan is his personal involvement, personal touch, and personal attention to miniscule details.

His ability to draw out my fears and help me to face them has also really helped me.

Brendan has also helped me maintain a positive attitude, helping me to look for the positive in every situation.

I would recommend anyone not getting the results they want in their personal life work with Brendan and Evolution Institution to get the personal support which has helped me.

I feel excited to finally be finding great guys with potential with all his help!!!

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Chrissy Johnson

This was a really big help.

I am SO glad I spent the time to work with Brendan. He was so easy to talk to and helped me enormously in redrafting my dating profile but more importantly narrowing down what I was looking for. His tips for how to check in with myself and approach the entire dating experience turned what had become an unpleasant chore back into something I felt in control of and have enjoyed doing. I feel like I’m able to show up on dates as myself and credit the work I did with Brendan for helping me figure out just who that “self” is.

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Kai Andrews

Before I always believed turning

Before I always believed turning 30 is old, and I even thinking turning 23 is sad… Until I know this guy: at the age of 36, he is way more successful with women then he was at my age. A once overweight dyslexic guy who couldn’t be touched has transformed into this amazingly deep personality. Seeing the picture of his 19 year old sub just amazes me, and inspires me to live on with a strong faith in the future. Seriously, each time I get flaked on or turned down by a girl, I can just think of Brendan as an example and positivity will fill the whole all over again, Thank you!

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Hu Chao

This work has also helped me in other relationships not only with my partner, so its just been so valuable.

When I decided to reach out to Brendan I was completely lost and feeling so hopeless. My partner and I were at a point of not knowing how to move forward. I was unable to feel and be intimate and I couldn’t figure out why or what to do about it. I saw Brendan as someone who would truly get what I was going through. I was looking for a teacher and confidant who could help me learn what I desperately needed to know. I realised that we learn almost nothing growing up about relationship dynamics, intimacy or communication. Brendan clearly had a great understanding of this and his confidence felt so reassuring. Working together was really raw for me and what I needed, he held space for hard and deep questions to be asked. No-one had ever held space for me like this before. No wonder so many of us are suffering in our relationships, we all need a Brendan in our lives, to show the reality of relationships and the realness of human intimacy. Straight away I noticed a shift in how I was thinking and feeling. My partner and I did the work and made a promise to let everything unfold in its own time. I learnt to trust the tools which Brendan gave us and over time and commitment, our relationship has become so much more than I ever imagined. And yes the Intimacy is out of this world. The beautiful thing is that’s its our own personal intimacy that really connects us on a deeper level. This is totally new to me and opens us up to experience even more love together. Thank you Brendan for helping me know what it is to be in a loving connected relationship. This work has also helped me in other relationships not only with my partner, so its just been so valuable.

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Zoe Lester

Life Coaching gave me the real motivation to make awesome changes in my life.

I’ve spent most of my adult life trying to recover from a difficult childhood and, like a lot of people, I have tried many therapies and read countless self-help books. Some of this was very helpful, but Life Coaching gave me the real motivation to make changes, which have led to improvements in all areas of my life.
Although my focus was on career development, I found that looking at how I think and what I believe, and setting goals and formulating steps to achieve these, with the guidance and encouragement of Brendan as my Life Coach, has brought me a degree of success and happiness, which I hardly believed would be possible at the beginning of my journey. It has changed my outlook on life and possibilities and given me the insight and skills to continue the journey forward on all fronts.
I highly recommend Evolution Institution Life coaching to anyone, whatever age or stage in life you’re at.

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Karen Derulo

I experienced orgasms so far beyond anything I have ever felt before.

This past Sunday I experienced orgasms so far beyond anything I have ever felt that afterwards I said to my husband (and myself) – “I’m sure I could have gone through my whole life and died without ever feeling like this!” Beyond the physical, the delight was also in being completely, selfishly absorbed in my own pleasure – no guilt or reservations. So a big THANKS!!!!!!!

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Helena Bastos

I would recommend Brendan’s services to anyone who asks me.

I first met Brendan about 2 or 3 years ago during a very difficult time in my life. I was at a crossroads in my life. I was feeling very depressed. I was always confused as to why life was so hard and what was the meaning of it all. Big questions! This one particular day, I literally just happened to be talking to a friend of mine and she suggested I see Brendan. After reading Brendan’s website I wondered if this guy was doing so much, could he really be good at anything? But then I thought maybe he must know something that I don’t and I wanted some answers.

Anyway, I ended up making the appointment. And It was exactly what I needed. Brendan taught me how everything is interconnected, and also taught me all about the different personalities of people and how we all learn, behave and react differently to different things. This helped me to understand my partner better and ultimately save our marriage.

Over the years I have been able to use all of the techniques that Brendan has taught me. I set a goal and see myself achieving it. With this, I have ran a marathon, bought my home, set up a successful business, created a happy marriage and have two beautiful children.

Most recently, I was having trouble with my daughter’s school teacher. She was being a bully to the kids and as it was my first experience with primary school for my kids, I wasn’t sure what to do. I contacted Brendan who was able to see me. Brendan gave his time to me generously. He didn’t rush me. We went over so many things in our time. Most importantly, I realised that the courage was within me to confront the school and ultimately have our daughter moved to a new class, where she has been extremely happy ever since.

Brendan has taught me to trust my inner compass. That the answers are within me if I just sit and listen. He will always tell me the truth and what is needed to be heard without sugar-coating it. His perspective on things is a blessing. I would recommend his services to anyone who asks me.

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Sharon Copplestone

I highly recommend Brendan as an excellent Life Coach.

Life Coaching with Brendan has helped me decide what I want to do with my life. My first Life Coaching session was in September 2020 and we have met three times per month since that time and I have made such progress in my life dreams. I have kept a journal that I write in every time we have a telephone session. I can look back and see where Life Coaching has helped me with the following: Making decisions based on my needs, making decisions without emotions, letting go of guilt, a zest for life, and I learned to say to myself “Is this the best for me because I deserve the absolute best in everything I do”. And the most helpful thing I have learned is to how to stay focused on my goals.

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Stephanie Willham

Brendan’s workshops and coaching transformed our marriage.

Brendan’s workshops and coaching transformed our marriage. 2 years ago we were on the verge of divorce. One of our core struggles was power and control in our sexual relationship. I had fears about being overpowered which caused me to take control, which in turn made him feel powerless and unable to get his needs met. I also had needs that I was not communicating, which left me feeling dissatisfied. Needless to say, we had sex less and less, and when we did it typically ended badly. This caused my husband to spend time masturbating to porn on the internet, which left me feeling rejected and abandoned (and angry). A friend told us about the fun workshops run by Evolution Institution, (back when it was called Sensual Living) and we decided to enter Brendan’s Sexuality Bootcamp as we fondly called it. We were determined to break through this pattern, regardless of the outcome of our relationship.

After my husband undertook sex and relationship coaching with Brendan, he said he learned more about what women want in 6 coaching sessions than he had his entire life. He is almost 60. At first I expected him to practice his newly learned techniques on me, but then he explained his main takeaway was to help me express and better understand what MY needs were so that he could satisfy them! Thanks to this mindset and the hands-on techniques he learned, we are achieving better and more powerful orgasms together and I feel heard and appreciated in a way I never had before.

The next breakthrough was when we attended the Kinky Explorations + Lets Get Naughty workshop with 6 other couples. At first I was terrified. This was exactly the place I was stuck in our relationship, and I was worried I would have to do things that were uncomfortable while we explored our fantasies in front of strangers! In fact, it was quite liberating to share our fears and stories with others, as well as practice simple and fun techniques for telling each other our fantasies and learning how to act them out. I discovered my husband did not harbor scary dominating fantasies which I had feared, and he in turn, discovered a more sexually adventurous and open me than he ever imagined. This combined with me attending Awaken Your Inner Enchantress allowed me to feel more comfortable in my body and expressing my needs. I found the role plays particularly helpful in learning to do this.

I am happy to say that our Sexuality Boot camp has had a huge impact on our relationship. We have more sex, it is much more pleasurable and now when the struggle for control rears its ugly head we work past it. I am much more open to pleasing my husband and meeting his needs and he mine. And we’re still together! I know several of my friends who have experienced your work have had similar results. I will be forever indebted to you for the tremendous love, care and commitment you put into the work you do in helping couples and individuals embrace their sexuality in a healthy, open way. Thank you Brendan! xox

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Cathy Buchanan

Finally! Someone who tells it how it is, without all the fluff!

Brendan’s piercing clarity, depth of knowledge and gentle heart can lead any practitioner right to the heart of their being.

His embodiment of the holistic path and his understanding of sacred sexuality coupled with a no-bull-shit-attitude puts him in a unique position in the community of modern-day practitioners.

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Geraldine Chapman

Can’t recommend Brendan’s coaching services enough

I have worked with Brendan as my sex coach on and off for over 18 months and the thing I have noticed most is the degree of progress I have made with the issues I was dealing with (anxiety, communication and understanding how to manage my feelings of anger and irritation). I have heard so many people say that this level of coaching seems too expensive but I always say that the amount of experience Brendan has, the sheer range of professional tools and understanding he has as well as his willingness to challenge and really support you through the often difficult process of coaching has made a big difference to me and my life much more quickly than I see in friends and colleagues who are trying similar, perhaps cheaper, options. Not that speed is always the goal, but I think it is vital to see the real difference that Brendan’s level of experience brings to the therapeutic process and that an hour of time seems to me to be often twice as valuable as someone with less breath of knowledge and skills.

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Tanya Truslove

Brendan helped me make my dreams come true!

Coaching with Brendan allowed me to figure out how I could combine my interests and education to have a career that I will love! I have always wanted to have my own business but fear prevented me from taking the steps necessary to make it happen. Brendan’s coaching gave me the inspiration and tools to explore the possibility of having my own business and the confirmation that I can make it work. I now have a timeline to the day I can run my business full time and I look forward to my future career. Brendan helped me make my dreams come true!

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Chris Litchfield

Very professional and enlightening.

After struggling with boundaries, communication and assertiveness in previous relationships…. I now feel safe, confident and empowered when involved intimately. The presence, knowledge, trust, kindness and empathy during my coaching sessions with Brendan was life-changing. Breathing, mindfulness and body awareness has become a daily practice.

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Clarissa Manolea

I highly recommend him to you

I will be forever grateful for the support and kindness Brendan has shown me during one of the most difficult seasons of my life. His listening ears, non-judgmental attitude and ability to empathies are much appreciated. I greatly looked forward to our sessions and I am so pleased to know him. My sessions with Brendan have been such a positive and restorative experience.

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Susie Randall

Brendan helps you feel comfortable in your own skin.

There is this serene and grounded manner about Brendan that helps you feel comfortable in your own skin, because he is. He has the most charismatic mix of educated professional academic in his expert field with sexy vampire energy; so down to earth, you feel like you could whisper all your secrets to him without judgement, and you definitely can. And this is where the magic happens, in trusting this incredibly talented and heart-centred man to guide and support you through your own healing or learning experience. Brendan ‘walked’ with me and some dark aspects of myself that I wanted to learn to love. His healing space feels like he does; safe, supportive and kind of sexy. Trusting Brendan’s exercises, practices, and attention, I was able to transmute some engulfing needy, insecure feelings into real beauty and self-love. You will walk out stronger, energetically cleaner and proud that you made the effort to gift yourself a session with Brendan.

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Carly Stewart

You should definitely give this a go

I have been working with Brendan Hadley for about 8 months, both as part of a couple and on my own. His warm, enthusiastic and open nature makes him very easy to talk to, and his intellectual rigour and heavyweight background means that I have absolute confidence in his ability to manage some of the more challenging emotional issues I have had to deal with. Brendan provides insightful guidance as well as a truly non-judgmental and welcoming space to be heard in.

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Elizabeth Cox

Out of this world…

Out of this world… such clarity and ease like I’ve never felt in my life.
The guided visualisation, breathwork, and dancing that took place in the workshop with Brendan was an out-of-this-world experience for me.
I don’t find it easy to relax usually, so I was surprised to notice the relaxation of my head, neck and shoulders only 10 minutes in.
Brendan has great presence and inspires in me feelings of overwhelming calmness and peace.
I love Brendan’s approach, just like his personality – very gentle and easygoing.
After the workshop I was feeling a bit high and it lasted for a while; such clarity and ease like I’ve never felt in my life.
Thank you so much!

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Rebecca Teixeira

My Life Coach has really helped me to enjoy life more.

My Life Coach has really helped me to enjoy life more. I used to be very stressed out about making more money. Brendan has helped me turn my paralyzing stress into renewed confidence. It has resulted in more productivity and more income. I strongly recommend Evolution Institution to everyone!

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Terrence Spall

Best investment of time and money I ever made.

When I first considered getting coached through Evolution Institution I was sceptical, I didn’t know what to expect and I wasn’t sure if it was worth it. But Brendan flawed me with his wealth of knowledge and overall competence as a coach, needless to say he put my scepticism to rest real quick.

I can’t believe no one ever gave me this information about what women want before. I went home and practiced seduction techniques with my partner, and finally was able to help her orgasm, and we had more passionate sex than we’ve ever had. Best investment of time and money I ever made.

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Trent Phillips

Our sex life now is much more adventurous!

After an exciting two years, my partner and I fell into a routine. Saturday night date night to the movies or an upmarket restaurant. Sex after the date – same routine. My BFF paid for our coaching with Brendan as a birthday present for me. Things were awkward at first. We weren’t used to talking to others about our sex life. By Saturday night we were talking about everything. We went to a BDSM and Fetish club that he recommended and tried a few things we had only fantasised about. Sunday night we were exhausted but still excited by what we experienced. Our sex life now is much more adventurous! And that was just the first session… we can’t wait till the next!

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Tiffeny Malick

I have a new appreciation for my body, myself and my innate femininity.

I came to Brendan after a few bad break-ups, wanting to break the cycle and learn from past mistakes. He helped me uncover my fear of intimacy and gave me the tools to move past it. Body confidence has also been a huge issue for me, and we worked on that too. I never used to feel comfortable naked, with myself or even around long-term partners, but now I just want to be naked all the time! I have a new appreciation for my body, myself and my innate femininity.

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Georgia McDermott

Working with Brendan gave me comfort and ease of mind.

Working with Brendan gave me comfort and ease of mind. It took a lot of pressure from myself.

My initial main concern was getting comfort that Brendan would understand what I am looking for and what specific traits are compatible with mine.

He helped me overcome this concern by listening and encouraging me to express my thoughts as well as him giving his honest opinions vs just saying anything I wanted to hear to just get my business.

It was a pleasure getting coached by Brendan. I felt comfortable expressing my thoughts and he earned my trust, which allowed me to be open-minded and as a result less anxious about the whole journey.

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Lisa Stewart

An excellent workshop, well structured, and full of practical tips for the uninitiated.

An excellent workshop, well structured, and full of practical tips for the uninitiated.

Brendan paced the mini-course well, covering a lot of ground while allowing time for group contributions.

The Masterclass tells you all you need to know about Tantric massage, simply and clearly. One of the best practical workshops I’ve attended. I left the workshop feeling blissful and knowing exactly how to do it in the future without second-guessing myself!
Thank you Brendan. x

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Kristen Campbell

A powerful transformation is taking place in my life.

I wasn’t sure if life coaching was what I needed to help me reach my goals, but after only one month of working with Brendan a powerful transformation started taking place in my life. I love getting up in the morning, I delight in my children and my husband, and I am allowing myself to enjoy the journey. Brendan’s guidance, support, and honest feedback is teaching me to embrace my unique approach to life and live in a way that truly brings me joy.

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Ann Butler

When I hit problems in my relationship Brendan was my beacon.

When I hit problems in my relationship Brendan was my beacon. As my coach he immediately created and held a safe space for me to unveil myself. I laugh and cry and see only love and compassion in his eyes. I feel empowered knowing I have Brendan in my life. His work is humble and profound.

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Yvette Carter

The results have been astonishing.

I met Brendan on holiday and was fascinated when he said he was a dating coach. I had been off the dating scene for a very long time and felt it was the right time for me to get involved in a relationship again. I was tentative at first, believing I knew myself rather well. I didn’t really have high expectations of where our sessions would lead, although I knew Brendan as a warm, loving and totally trustworthy person and that I would be safe in his hands. The results have been astonishing. I have discovered that Brendan is a great coach and mentor. Through working with him, my confidence has soared, not only in dating, but also in my business and just about every other area of my life. While he is totally supportive, he is also incredibly sharp and doesn’t let you get away with anything that is detrimental to your development or achieving your goals. What started out as a relatively lighthearted adventure has become something much more important and fundamental to my future happiness. I haven’t yet met ‘the one’, but I’m certainly having a great time trying to find him!

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Sarah Rudd

Life Coaching with Brendan changed my life.

Life Coaching with Brendan changed my life. I was at a standstill for over 10 years working a Corporate job I didn’t like. After 1 month of working with him I found a school to attend, my confidence increased in making a decision and I was able to move forward. I ended taking the package from Corporate and now I have the job of my dreams. I am now a Holistic Health Counselor. I see clients privately and I do cooking classes and seminars. I never imagined what working with Brendan would have done. A great experience but also a necessary one to make things happen in my life. I can’t thank him enough.

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Susan Cook

Great experience and well worth it.

Since my wife and I had our sessions with Brendan, our relationship with each other has improved and we are working through things more positively. Great experience and well worth it.

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Chris Donovan

Brendan was the first person who really heard me.

I was trapped in a glass bubble looking out at the world. I could see how it could be, I could see how others could live happy, fulfilling lives. But I couldn’t make it happen for myself. Nobody noticed my suffering. Brendan was the first person who really heard me. He looked into the glass bubble at me and said metaphorically, “Hello there, do you want to come out here with me?”. He kindly and gently led me out of that bubble and now I am in a position to help others find their way out. I am happier and freer than I’ve been in the last 20 years of my life. Thank you Brendan.

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Joanna Tollio

Our whole family has benefited from knowing Brendan.

Our son was having difficulty with friendships at school along with displaying poor behaviour in class. We could see that lack of self-confidence was part of his problem. My husband and I first met Brendan years ago when we reached out for some help with our relationship. We have both stayed in touch with Brendan since and I knew he was the right person for Isaac to talk to about school. Brendan listened to Isaac and quickly built a rapport with him. Brendan supported us as parents as well, by being available to us to talk through issues as they arose and offering advice. After building up Isaac’s confidence and belief in himself and his capabilities, he returned to the “happy” person he deserves to be. We are very pleased that he is back to his happy self. Thank you, Brendan. Our whole family has benefited from knowing you.

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Pamela Kent

I found my coaching sessions with Brendan really life-changing.

I found my coaching sessions with Brendan really life-changing. He helped me approach relationships in a different, more constructive way and my confidence levels in all areas of my life have really increased. Not only have I now found a happy relationship, but by improving my communication skills I’ve also been able to make positive changes at work and progress my career.

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Simon Hall

I have never been so happy and fulfilled.

Every therapist I ever worked with told me I couldn’t have what I really wanted in my life, that I would just have deal with my disappointment and live with my unmet needs. Brendan is the first person who actually showed me that I could get all of those needs met in my life. I have never been so happy and fulfilled.

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Stephanie Ling

I’ve learned lots of really useful information and techniques

I’ve learnt lots of really useful information and techniques that I can’t wait to put into practice.

It was also a great workshop for meeting other like-minded individuals to connect and network with, and soooo much fun!

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Sandrine Sousa

It was a profound and powerful experience

It was a profound and powerful experience; I heard the sounds of thousands of years of women experiencing sexual pleasure; like the mantras of our very core. I felt my femaleness and its energy like I have never felt before.

I left with an incredible sense of empowerment! I highly recommend the “Awaken Your Inner Enchantress” workshop for anyone wanting to become confident with their inner sex goddess.

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Peggy MacManus

Just a quick note to say thank you

Just a quick note to say thank you for the more aware, more caring and tender husband I received at home last night. He was very excited about his experience and shared some of what he learned, it was great. I told him it felt like he had done a personal development workshop in which he expanded his consciousness, not just learned techniques. I look forward to doing the same so we can create a stronger relationship together. Thank you thank you!

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Kurti Rai

You’ll certainly learn what you need to buy the end of this.

Most Life coaches and self-help gurus, even the big stars, state facts and use sciences without proper justification. In some way it makes self-help a semi-religion rather than a science, and most people cannot fully believe something until they understand it deeply. Brendan instead tells us the deep science behind the routines, the structure, and gives us a long list of books to read. These will be amazing for comfort building. Thank you for treating us like intelligent students.

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Daniel Masterson

He really guided me to where I needed to go.

There was something about his eyes and the way he looked into mine that gave such a sense of comfortability. I had never opened up with anyone the way I did with Brendan yesterday. His confidence was so contagious and rewarding to see. He really guided me to where I needed to go. I haven’t stopped ranting and raving about him and what he has brought out in me. I will forever think back at this meeting as one of the big leaps in my sensual journey. To be completely honest it felt more like a deep conversation with a great friend than a session.

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Tracy Beckinsale

I love this guy!

I love this guy! Brendan continues to help me evolve into the beautiful vibrant sexy irresistible being I know I already AM inside – so much gratitude! 💋💋

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Alice Ross