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Are you tired of feeling stuck in a rut, unable to break free and truly thrive in life?

Do you yearn for deeper connections and lasting happiness in your relationships?

Is your sex life lacking the excitement and fulfillment you crave?

Well, hello there! I’m Brendan Hadley, and I’m here to tell you that your struggles are not uncommon. In fact, I’ve been right where you are, facing similar challenges and uncertainties. But fear not, because I’ve not only overcome these obstacles myself, but I’ve also helped countless others do the same.

At Evolution Institution, I offer more than just coaching – I offer a pathway to transformation. Together, we’ll embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth, unlocking your true potential and guiding you toward the life you’ve always dreamed of. Whether it’s finding your perfect partner, reigniting the spark in your relationship, or experiencing a more fulfilling sex life, I’m uniquely qualified to help you achieve your goals.

With my holistic and personalized approach to coaching, we’ll delve deep into your innermost desires and aspirations, uncovering the greatness that lies within you. It’s time to unleash your full potential and become the best version of yourself. Are you ready to evolve?

Why use A Coach?

Change is a gradual process, and most big changes are made by taking small steps every day over a long period of time. Personal transformation takes time, and it’s not linear. Sometimes you take three steps forward then two steps back. But with the help of a skilled coach or mentor, you can make huge leaps in just a few days.

Albert Einstein once said, “You cannot solve a problem with the mind that created it.”
That’s why we all sometimes need a coach, consultant or a mentor. Someone who has our highest good always in sight. Someone who sees our potential and believes in our capacity to evolve beyond our current limitations. Someone who leads by example and practices what they preach, and knows just how to guide us to get real results.

And that’s where Brendan comes in.

What Brendan's coaching provides

Step into a world of boundless possibilities with my transformative coaching services, meticulously crafted to ignite your inner fire and propel you toward unparalleled success and fulfillment. I offer an exhilarating blend of fun, unique, life-transforming educational body of work that cuts through the bullshit, consisting of highly effective tools, personalised strategies and profound guidance, utilising a unique holistic systematic approach to Personal Development, Business, Love and Sacred Sexuality. This involves teachings inspired by different schools of Psychology, NLP, Eastern and Western philosophy, Shamanic Alchemy, Clinical Sexology, Tantra, Kama-sutra, Quodoushka, Conscious Kink and so much more, without all that fluffy pseudoscience nonsense thrown in.

From reading this, you probably already gathered that my approach to coaching varies from the subtle nuances of gentle praise and encouragement to the sheer intensity of a big stick upside the head, which I call “Reality Check.” We all need a little of both at times. If so, congratulations! You’re quite clever. And you would be correcting your assumption.

My top priority is to coach and guide you towards your specific desired outcome on your unique powerful personal transformation, whether you want to experience true love, have an amazing sex life, start a successful coaching business or live a fulfilling life. I’ve got you covered.

My mission is clear: to guide you with unwavering dedication toward the realization of your deepest desires and aspirations. Whether you seek true love, transcendent intimacy, entrepreneurial success, or simply a life filled with purpose and meaning, I am here to support you every step of the way.

But I offer more than just knowledge – I create transformative experiences that peel away the layers of societal conditioning, liberating you from past traumas and present obstacles. Together, we’ll journey inward, unveiling the essence of your true self and unleashing the boundless potential that lies within.

Welcome to the realm of Real Self-Evolution – a place where dreams become reality, and the extraordinary becomes the norm. Are you ready to embark on the most exhilarating journey of your life?

Evolution Institution offers fun workshops, luxurious retreats, plus excellent coaching and mentoring that transforms our clients lives through our flexible, multi-technique approach and pleasure-skills training provided by our systemically-trained coaches in each of the categories seen below!

We Specialise In:

Life Coaching

Dating Coaching

Relationship Coaching

Sex Coaching

Kinky Coaching

Business Coaching

What To Expect From Evolution Institution

Through Your Journey with us at the Evolution Institution, You Can Expect to Experience All of The Following:

Evolution Institution Testimonials

The Evolution Institution couple’s workshop helped my partner and I deepen our sexual connection to each other.

I attended an Evolution Institution couple’s workshop to improve my coaching skills and got to invite my partner to take it with me. It was such an amazing experience to be there with my partner learning professional skills that immediately transformed my personal relationship. Having Brendan demo a couple’s session with us helped us understand and reverse our negative relationship vortex. We learned to have empathy for each other when it arose in our relationship so that we could resolve it quickly and get back to the fun stuff! As always with somatic teachings, it also helped us deepen our sexual connection to each other.

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Sheena González

I found their workshop extremely fun!

I found their workshop extremely fun, sensitive and at the same time powerfully transformative. It had the right mixture of professionalism and compassion that touches the heart and reaches the mind with crisp clarity. I honor you Brendan for having been true to your goal to become a sexual healer; you are one of the best!

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Sandra Bortone

I just love the way he brings his wisdom; very authentic and with lots of humour.

Brendan is such a powerful man. With his presence and divine masculine energy he lights up the room. He definitely knows how to tap into the energy of the people attending his workshops. And I just love the way he brings his wisdom; very authentic and with lots of humour. The questions Brendan asked me during our coaching sessions were spot on. If you’re looking for someone who can help you find balance within the healthy masculine and feminine, then Brendan is definitely the right person to connect with.

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Kimberly Clark

One of the best and most fun workshops I have been to – and I have been to a lot!

One of the best and most fun workshops I have been to – and I have been to a lot! Brendan is extremely knowledgeable about sexology and human behaviour and the workshop gave me a wealth of actionable ideas to take into the bedroom.

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Sinead Clare

I’ve learned lots of really useful information and techniques

I’ve learnt lots of really useful information and techniques that I can’t wait to put into practice.

It was also a great workshop for meeting other like-minded individuals to connect and network with, and soooo much fun!

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Sandrine Sousa

My relationship with my wife just keeps getting better!

Before I came to see Brendan, I was very unhappy with my relationship with my wife of over 30 years. I was unhappy with her sexual responsiveness and felt constantly criticized by her. I would collapse with the tone of her voice or even an expression could send me into a tailspin. My wife was no happier and had suggested separation.

All our 30 plus years of married life I tried to be the “good husband” by being the “nice guy.” I tried so very hard to please her thinking that my tactic of trying to make everything ok would work. Needless to say, I failed most of the time. When she was unhappy or angry with me I would shut down, pout or disappear for a few days until she came and tried to patch things up with some make-up sex.

The results have been nothing short of remarkable. I have learned that what my wife needed in order to be a woman was for me to be a man. Once I started changing how I was with my wife, she challenged me to my core. I had no idea of how deeply I could be cut and still stand there and stay engaged with her while she pushed me to find out if I was really going to be a man she could count on and trust. She needed to know that she could be all sides of herself, the good, bad and ugly to see if I really cared about her and not just “the goodies.”

I stayed with her for three weeks of the most intense emotional roller coaster I have ever been on. The ugly turned awesome and back again. After three weeks of receiving her on all levels, from all parts of herself, she collapsed in my arms, totally in love with me. Since then we have been like teenagers in love. I didn’t realize how many times I could still have sex in a single day.

I regret all the years that I could have been a man for her and given her the pleasure of being a woman. But, no matter. What is important are the wonderful changes that I have experience in my work with Brendan – I feel strong and centered in myself and my relationship with my wife just keeps getting better.

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Derek Buchanan

Out of this world…

Out of this world… such clarity and ease like I’ve never felt in my life.
The guided visualisation, breathwork, and dancing that took place in the workshop with Brendan was an out-of-this-world experience for me.
I don’t find it easy to relax usually, so I was surprised to notice the relaxation of my head, neck and shoulders only 10 minutes in.
Brendan has great presence and inspires in me feelings of overwhelming calmness and peace.
I love Brendan’s approach, just like his personality – very gentle and easygoing.
After the workshop I was feeling a bit high and it lasted for a while; such clarity and ease like I’ve never felt in my life.
Thank you so much!

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Rebecca Teixeira

I received practices that have daily anchored me in the energy of joyfulness.

It’s difficult to find words to describe my experience in this retreat. The experience brought me a gentle and joyful inner pleasure. It can seem very funny, but the word that came to me was ‘injaculation’.

In this retreat I was able to fit together various pieces of a puzzle of concepts and spiritual teachings that until now were somewhat disconnected. It was also a strengthening of the fundamental aspects of BDSM, a consolidation of my understanding of the various lines of sacred sexuality and how they relate to other spiritual traditions.

As a gift from this retreat I received practices that have daily anchored me in the energy of the heart’s joyfulness. After the retreat and through the daily practices that we were given, I notice a definite transformation in my sex life and massage work. I find myself much more fluid and connected with my intuition.

I was really struck by Brendan’s ability to transmit such profound teachings and practices in such a simple and light way.

I thank him very much for showing such patience and full availability during the whole time that we were together.

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Bryony Benazzo

Really knows how to get the best out of his clients.

Brendan has a warm and empathetic style of coaching and really knows how to get the best out of his clients by being solution-focused.

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Gorge Hughes

Just a quick note to say thank you

Just a quick note to say thank you for the more aware, more caring and tender husband I received at home last night. He was very excited about his experience and shared some of what he learned, it was great. I told him it felt like he had done a personal development workshop in which he expanded his consciousness, not just learned techniques. I look forward to doing the same so we can create a stronger relationship together. Thank you thank you!

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Kurti Rai

I couldn’t recommend Evolution Institution anymore wholeheartedly to others if I tried!

Who knew there was so much that one could learn – and enjoy learning – about how to relate and create intimacy with your partner. There seem to be so few places in life to ask questions about this topic – we don’t do that well in our society – to find out more information, to find out what other people have already learned. But the workshop was the perfect environment. The content was engaging and helpful, we practiced together and with Brendan and his assistant volunteers, we were able to bring home some great ways of relating that has opened up an already great relationship into something even better. Brendan was masterful in how he taught and coached and in sharing the wisdom he’s learned over the years of helping others. I couldn’t recommend Evolution Institution workshops anymore wholeheartedly to others if I tried!

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Tracey Ashman

I would recommend Evolution Institution to anyone

Getting life coaching through Evolution Institution was very helpful to me as I knew I wanted a new career but didn’t know how to go about it… I would recommend Evolution Institution to anyone who is tired of their dull and unfulfilling job and is looking for a way to find a career that is exciting and meaningful to them.

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Ting Bai

It was a profound and powerful experience

It was a profound and powerful experience; I heard the sounds of thousands of years of women experiencing sexual pleasure; like the mantras of our very core. I felt my femaleness and its energy like I have never felt before.

I left with an incredible sense of empowerment! I highly recommend the “Awaken Your Inner Enchantress” workshop for anyone wanting to become confident with their inner sex goddess.

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Peggy MacManus

My husband changed completely – thank you so much!

I can’t believe that the workshop lasted only one day; my husband changed completely; his attitude, his touch and even the way he looks at me are different – thank you so much!

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Sophie Lucena

My Life Coach has really helped me to enjoy life more.

My Life Coach has really helped me to enjoy life more. I used to be very stressed out about making more money. Brendan has helped me turn my paralyzing stress into renewed confidence. It has resulted in more productivity and more income. I strongly recommend Evolution Institution to everyone!

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Terrence Spall

Brendan’s workshops and coaching transformed our marriage.

Brendan’s workshops and coaching transformed our marriage. 2 years ago we were on the verge of divorce. One of our core struggles was power and control in our sexual relationship. I had fears about being overpowered which caused me to take control, which in turn made him feel powerless and unable to get his needs met. I also had needs that I was not communicating, which left me feeling dissatisfied. Needless to say, we had sex less and less, and when we did it typically ended badly. This caused my husband to spend time masturbating to porn on the internet, which left me feeling rejected and abandoned (and angry). A friend told us about the fun workshops run by Evolution Institution, (back when it was called Sensual Living) and we decided to enter Brendan’s Sexuality Bootcamp as we fondly called it. We were determined to break through this pattern, regardless of the outcome of our relationship.

After my husband undertook sex and relationship coaching with Brendan, he said he learned more about what women want in 6 coaching sessions than he had his entire life. He is almost 60. At first I expected him to practice his newly learned techniques on me, but then he explained his main takeaway was to help me express and better understand what MY needs were so that he could satisfy them! Thanks to this mindset and the hands-on techniques he learned, we are achieving better and more powerful orgasms together and I feel heard and appreciated in a way I never had before.

The next breakthrough was when we attended the Kinky Explorations + Lets Get Naughty workshop with 6 other couples. At first I was terrified. This was exactly the place I was stuck in our relationship, and I was worried I would have to do things that were uncomfortable while we explored our fantasies in front of strangers! In fact, it was quite liberating to share our fears and stories with others, as well as practice simple and fun techniques for telling each other our fantasies and learning how to act them out. I discovered my husband did not harbor scary dominating fantasies which I had feared, and he in turn, discovered a more sexually adventurous and open me than he ever imagined. This combined with me attending Awaken Your Inner Enchantress allowed me to feel more comfortable in my body and expressing my needs. I found the role plays particularly helpful in learning to do this.

I am happy to say that our Sexuality Boot camp has had a huge impact on our relationship. We have more sex, it is much more pleasurable and now when the struggle for control rears its ugly head we work past it. I am much more open to pleasing my husband and meeting his needs and he mine. And we’re still together! I know several of my friends who have experienced your work have had similar results. I will be forever indebted to you for the tremendous love, care and commitment you put into the work you do in helping couples and individuals embrace their sexuality in a healthy, open way. Thank you Brendan! xox

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Cathy Buchanan

An excellent workshop, well structured, and full of practical tips for the uninitiated.

An excellent workshop, well structured, and full of practical tips for the uninitiated.

Brendan paced the mini-course well, covering a lot of ground while allowing time for group contributions.

The Masterclass tells you all you need to know about Tantric massage, simply and clearly. One of the best practical workshops I’ve attended. I left the workshop feeling blissful and knowing exactly how to do it in the future without second-guessing myself!
Thank you Brendan. x

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Kristen Campbell

Finally! Someone who tells it how it is, without all the fluff!

Brendan’s piercing clarity, depth of knowledge and gentle heart can lead any practitioner right to the heart of their being.

His embodiment of the holistic path and his understanding of sacred sexuality coupled with a no-bull-shit-attitude puts him in a unique position in the community of modern-day practitioners.

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Geraldine Chapman

I will tell my friends who are lacking positivity to go and attend these workshops run by Brendan as soon as possible.

Brendan’s workshop through Evolution Institution triggered emotional issues which I realised I should address because it affects me. I loved the communication styles and being positive, the focus on feeding the right wolf. I liked the examples. I liked the theory and the research, and especially all the fun learning activities. I will tell my friends who are lacking positivity to go and attend these workshops run by Evolution Institution as soon as possible.

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Anisah Ayad

This is the first fun workshop that I’ve attended where I actually feel like I’ve gained a huge amount of info

The workshop was very thorough and so much fun, we covered a huge amount. The facilitator was also very passionate about his subject. This is the first workshop that I’ve attended where I actually feel like I’ve gained a huge amount of info.
The workbook was great, and I found it very valuable, can’t wait to go to more of their workshops!

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Saanvi Acharya