Frequently Asked Questions

Although having a partner can help, all you really need for practising Sacred Sexuality is yourself, your body and your breath. Sacred Sexuality begins with an awareness of yourself and your inner being. Learning about Sacred Sexuality can give you the confidence to go and meet people to practice with.

We were created from sex. Our sexual energy is our creative life force energy. Open and strong sexual energy contributes toward our vitality, creativity and sense of well-being. While our sexual desires may be a natural part of who we are, our ability to express our sexuality is often learned. The understanding of and use of our sexual energies sadly is not common knowledge.


The teachings taught to you by Brendan can become a way of life; however, it is not about giving you rules and expectations that you absolutely must live by. It is about evolving and knowing yourself more fully, so that you have the freedom to move in alignment with your more natural inclinations. What you do with what you learn through your journey of personal development with us is entirely up to you. It can become the pathway for your, mental, physical, emotional, sexual and spiritual evolution as a sacred sensual being, or it can be something you practice to attract more wealth and abundance into your life.

Of course you don’t have to participate in any activity you don’t want to, however it is important to keep in mind that our workshops are set up as a safe environment and is designed to take you on a fun interactive journey to help you grow as a person, the more you participate the greater the benefits.

One of the things you learn about in Sacred Sexuality is truly being in the moment, so if you want to have long and luxurious lovemaking sessions you are able to, but just as equally you can enjoy a quick sexual encounter because you are bringing a level of depth and inner connection to the experience.

With sacred sexuality, a man can learn to develop his internal awareness so that he maintains a constant level of arousal and presence, allowing him to continue having sex until he chooses to ejaculate. The techniques we use within the Evolution Institution are less about control and forcing the situation and more about inner awareness.

A woman’s natural state is orgasmic bliss, it is just that we live in a world where this has been repressed. Through workshops and sessions, Brendan works with women to restore this natural state, using breath-work, bodywork, movement and awareness practices. Women are receptive and magnetic in their feminine essence, so what can happen is that women will open up to an experience simply because she heard another woman talk about it and absorbed the essence of the other woman’s experience. This is the beauty of our women’s workshops, particularly when women give themselves permission to fully express themselves in the space.

Definitely! There is no need to have a problem with attending our Fun Interactive Social Nights, Workshops or Retreats. All that’s required is the desire to learn and grow in a way that deepens your self-respect and opens you to loving yourself and others more fully.

Our primary focus in our workshops is on personal development: you will be expanding your own natural potential to experience passion and joy and co-empowerment in relationships. Although in some of them you will get to learn techniques that will heighten your sexual pleasure.

No, not at all, you can wear as much or as little as you feel comfortable.

No, if you don’t feel like participating with someone you may have been partnered up with, for a particular activity, then you don’t have to. At the Evolution Institution we encourage you to be authentic, it’s not about them, it’s about you and how you’re feeling in that moment.